"We torment ourselves rather to make it..." - Quote by Francois De La Rochefoucauld
We torment ourselves rather to make it appear that we are happy than to become so.
More by Francois De La Rochefoucauld
“Gratitude is like the good faith of traders: it maintains commerce, and we often pay, not because it is just to discharge our debts, but that we may more readily find people to trust us.”
“Timidity is a fault for which it is dangerous to reprove persons whom we wish to correct of it.”
“Wisdom is the mind what health is to the body.”
More on Appearance
“Love, all agreeable as it is, charms more by the fashion in which it displays itself, than by its own true merit.”
“What many men desire--that 'many' may be meant By the fool multitude that choose by show, Not learning more than the fond eye doth teach, Which pries not to th' interior, but like the martlet Builds in the weather on the outward wall, Even in the force and road of casualty.”
“I don't want my girl to be so skinny she can knife me with her knee.”
More on Happiness
“I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance. People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. Yet true happiness comes from a sense of inner peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultivation of altruism, of love and compassion and elimination of ignorance, selfishness and greed.”
“An absent friend gives us friendly company when we are well assured of his happiness.”
“You've always lived here, right?" Sarah asked. "Except for the years I went to college." "Didn't you ever want to move away? To experience something new?" "Like bistros?" She nudged him playfully with her elbow. "No, not just that. Cities have a vibrancy, a sense of excitement that you can't find in a small town." "I don't doubt it. But to be honest, I've never been interested in things like that. I don't need those things to make me happy. A nice quiet place to unwind at the end of the day, beautiful views, a few good friends. What else is there?”