š Home āŗ Quotes āŗ Alan Watts āŗ "So then, the relationship of self t..." ā So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself. ā ā If you awaken from this illusion, and you understand that black implies white, self implies other, life implies death - or shall I say, death implies life - you can conceive yourself. Not conceive, but feel yourself, not as a stranger in the world, not as someone here on sufferance, on probation, not as something that has arrived here by fluke, but you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental. What you are basically, deep, deep down, far, far in, is simply the fabric and structure of existence itself. ā ā Alan Watts