Dependence Quotes

My son, the word "dependence" often carries negative connotations. To be dependent means you're not standing on your own feet, that your fate is in the hands of others. And this is often true, as absolute dependence can strip a person of their freedom and dignity, making them vulnerable to exploitation. It's a chain, not a wing.

But let's consider it more deeply. Aren't we all dependent on each other in one way or another? On the air we breathe, on the community that provides us safety, on the love that nourishes our souls? The difference lies between a pathological dependence that makes one lose oneself, and a healthy interconnectedness that enriches us.

So how do we balance our need for independence with our instinct for interconnectedness, and the weakness and strength in our intertwined relationships? These *quotes* offer perspectives on this complex balance.

Quote by Voltaire: It is the poverty connected with our species which subordinates one man to another. It is not inequa...
Quote by Jane Austen: There are people, who the more you do for them, the less they will do for themselves....
Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche: In his lonely solitude, the solitary man feeds upon himself; in the thronging multitude, the many fe...
Quote by Henry Ford: Any man who thinks he can be happy and prosperous by letting the government take care of him better ...
Quote by Vince Lombardi: The challenge of every team is to build a feeling of oneness, of dependence on one another because t...
Quote by Nelson Mandela: We need to exert ourselves that much more, and break out of the vicious cycle of dependence imposed ...
Quote by Henry David Thoreau: I am wont to think that men are not so much the keepers of herds as herds are the keepers of men. Th...
Quote by Virginia Woolf: You can't think how I depend on you, and when you're not there the colour goes out of my life....
Quote by Mark Twain: We are all beggars, each in his own way....
Quote by Swami Vivekananda: Even books are nurses, medicines are nurses. But we must work to bring about the time when man shall...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: The civilized man has built a coach, but has lost the use of his feet....
Quote by William Shakespeare: I cannot do it without comp[u]ters....
Quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: All one needs to do is declare oneself free and one will immediately feel dependent. If you dare to ...
Quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: Upon the creatures we have made, we are, ourselves, at last, dependent....
Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche: One man runs to his neighbor because he is looking for himself, and another because he wants to loos...
Quote by C.S. Lewis: A tyrannous and gluttonous demand for affection can be a horrible thing. But in ordinary life no one...
Quote by Ernest Hemingway: Why, darling, I don't live at all when I'm not with you....
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: Necessity does everything well. In our condition of universal dependence, it seems heroic to let the...
Quote by William Shakespeare: To die, is to be banish'd from myself; And Silvia is myself: banish'd from her, Is self from self: a...
Quote by Rumi: You try to be faithful And sometimes you're cruel. You are mine. Then, you leave. Without you, I can...
Quote by Dalai Lama: Since at the beginning and end of our lives we are so dependent on other's kindness, how can it be i...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: We do not quite forgive a giver. The hand that feeds us is in some danger of being bitten....
Quote by François de La Rochefoucauld: He who imagines he can do without the world deceives himself much; but he who fancies the world cann...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: We do not quite forgive a giver. The hand that feeds us is in some danger of being bitten. We can re...
Quote by C.S. Lewis: We are born helpless. As soon as we are fully conscious we discover loneliness. We need others physi...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: A man must be clothed with society, or we shall feel a certain bareness and poverty, as of a displac...
Quote by Mark Twain: Never learn to do anything: if you don't learn, you'll always find someone else to do it for you....
Quote by George Bernard Shaw: A married man forms married habits and becomes dependent on marriage just as a sailor becomes depend...
Quote by Dalai Lama: When we are young and again when we are old, we depend heavily on the affection of others. Between t...
Quote by Gabriel García Márquez: He said that love was an emotion contra natura that condemned two strangers to a base and unhealthy ...
Quote by Marilyn Monroe: A woman can't be alone. She needs a man. A man and a woman support and strengthen each other. She ju...
Quote by Martin Luther King, Jr.: When we rise in the morning... at the table we drink coffee which is provided to us by a South Ameri...
Quote by Marsha Norman: When you fight something long enough, it becomes a center pole right in your life and you count on i...
Quote by Franklin D. Roosevelt: Continued dependence on relief inducers a spiritual and moral disintegration fundamentally destructi...
Quote by Mao Zedong: The people are like water and the army is like fish....
Quote by Anne Frank: At any rate, Daddy usually comes to my defence. Without him I wouldn't be able to stick out here....
Quote by Dalai Lama: Ultimately, the human being is in the mercy of nature....
Quote by Mahatma Gandhi: He who runs to the doctor, vaidya, or hakim for every little ailment, and swallows all kinds of vege...
Quote by William Shakespeare: O, how wretched is that poor man that hangs on princes' favors....
Quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: Voluntary dependence is the wonderful form of existence, and how could that be possible without love...
Quote by Henry Ford: When you get a whole country - as did ours - thinking that Washington is a sort of heaven and behind...
Quote by Henry David Thoreau: Men have become the tools of their tools....
Quote by Benjamin Franklin: [T]he more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of c...
Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche: To go on vegetating in cowardly dependence on physicians and machinations, after the meaning of life...
Quote by C.S. Lewis: Most of us need the crutch at times; but of course it is idiotic to use the crutch when our own legs...
Quote by Swami Vivekananda: Why are people so afraid? The answer is that they have made themselves helpless and dependent on oth...
Quote by William Shakespeare: The moon's an arrant thief, And her pale fire she snatches from the sun....
Quote by Blaise Pascal: Description of man: dependence, longing for independence, need....
Quote by Jane Austen: Sometimes the last person on earth you want to be with is the one person you can't be without....
Quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: I have so much in me, and the feeling for her absorbs it all; I have so much, and without her it all...
Quote by Martin Luther King, Jr.: And before you finish eating breakfast in the morning, you've depended on more than half of the worl...
Quote by Niccolo Machiavelli: In conclusion, the arms of others either fall from your back, or they weigh you down, or they bind y...
Quote by Vince Lombardi: Build for your team a feeling of oneness, of dependence on one another and of strength to be derived...
Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche: The more you let yourself go, the less others let you go....
Quote by John C. Maxwell: Never allow others to think you always have the best answers. This will only make them dependent on ...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: Our reliance on the physician is a kind of despair of ourselves....
Quote by Thomas Jefferson: Dependence begets subservience and venality, suffocates the germ of virtue, and prepares fit tools f...