#Politeness Quotes

“Nay, I am the very pink of courtesy.”

“It hurts not the tongue to give fair words.”

“In truth, politeness is artificial good humor, it covers the natural want of it, and ends by rendering habitual a substitute nearly equivalent to the real virtue.”

“In truth, politeness is artificial good humor, it covers the natural want of it, and ends by rendering habitual a substitute nearly equivalent to the real virtue. It is the practice of sacrificing to those whom we meet in society, all the little inconveniences and preferences which will gratify them, and deprive us of nothing worth a moment's consideration; it is the giving a pleasing and flattering turn to our expressions, which will conciliate others, and make them pleased with us as well as themselves. How cheap a price for the good will of another!”

“We cannot always oblige; but we can always speak obligingly.”

“True power and true politeness are above vanity.”

“Be polite to all, but intimate with few.”

“Politeness [is] a sign of dignity, not subservience.”

“The highest perfection of politeness is only a beautiful edifice, built, from the base to the dome, of ungraceful and gilded forms of charitable and unselfish lying.”

“You have filled my tea with lumps of sugar, and though I asked most distinctly for bread and butter, you have given me cake. I am known for the gentleness of my disposition, and the extraordinary sweetness of my nature, but I warn you, Miss Cardew, you may go too far.”

“Politeness and an affable address are our best introduction.”

“You must not pay a person a compliment, and then straightway follow it with a criticism.”

“That roguish and cheerful vice, politeness.”

“Enjoying praise is in some people merely a civility of the heart--and just the opposite of a vanity of the spirit.”

“When good friends praise a gifted person he often appears to be delighted with them out of politeness and goodwill, but in reality he feels indifferent.”

“There is a politeness of the heart; this is closely allied to love.”

“She is probably by this time as tired of me, as I am of her; but as she is too Polite and I am too civil to say so, our letters are still as frequent and affectionate as ever, and our Attachment as firm and sincere as when it first commenced.”

“Politeness is a desire to be treated politely, and to be esteemed polite oneself.”

“The most clever and polite are content with only seeming attentive while we perceive in their mind and eyes that at the very time they are wandering from what is said and desire to return to what they want to say.”

“If you lived in London, where the whole system is one of false good-fellowship, and you may know a man for twenty years without finding out that he hates you like poison, you would soon have your eyes opened. There we do unkind things in a kind way: we say bitter things in a sweet voice: we always give our friends chloroform when we tear them to pieces.”

“Civility is a desire to receive civilities, and to be accounted well-bred.”

“There is no accomplishment so easy to acquire as politeness and none more profitable.”

“Nobody thanks a witty man for politeness when he puts himself on a par with a society in which it would not be polite to show one's wit.”

“The good four. Honest with ourselves and with whatever is friend to us; courageous toward the enemy; generous toward the vanquished; polite-always that is how the four cardinal virtues want us.”

“A true politeness does not result from any hasty and artificial polishing, it is true, but grows naturally in characters of the right grain and quality, through a long fronting of men and events, and rubbing on good and bad fortune.”

“If someone offers you a breath mint, accept it.”

“Politeness of the mind is to have delicate thoughts”

“If you can't say something nice about a person, go ahead”

“It is a wise thing to be polite; consequently, it is a stupid thing to be rude. To make enemies by unnecessary and willful incivility, is just as insane a proceeding as to set your house on fire. For politeness is like a counter--an avowedly false coin, with which it is foolish to be stingy.”

“Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.”

“If you have no Honey in your Pot, have some in your Mouth.”

“(Politeness is) a tacit agreement that people's miserable defects, whether moral or intellectual, shall on either side be ignored and not be made the subject of reproach.”